For You: A Heaven-Sent, God-Kissed Invitation

The future belongs to the brave—to those who have heart-strength and a resilient faith in a miracle-working God.
There is a such a relentless stirring in my heart.

A hungry, eager anticipation as I embrace a brandnew year filled with possibilities, potential and purpose. I feel it waiting for me like a book begging to be written—there is a story that must be lived and must be told.

I sense the call to rise up, to be brave, willing and vulnerable enough to step out into new arenas and engage a future that God has planned for me. There are moments, however, that I question myself:

“Am I smart enough? Am I equipped enough? Am I too old to start something new? Do I have enough time in my full life?”

I am so aware that if I spend too much time dwelling on those thoughts, I will live paralyzed and un-engaged, wasting precious moments I can never get back. (That is the gift of being 57—you know time will not wait for you!)

You and I have a Heaven-sent, God-kissed invitation awaiting us. I love how Eugene Peterson expresses Paul’s words in The Message, in Ephesians 3:14-20:

“My response is to get down on my knees before the Father, this magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth. I ask him to strengthen you by his Spirit—not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength—that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in. And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, you’ll be able to take in with all followers of Jesus the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God.God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.” (The Message)

The future belongs to the brave—to those who have heart-strength and a resilient faith in a miracle-working God.

Allow me to share with you just a few moments of daring courage that have shaped my world:

The moment I said yes to a tall, handsome 18-year-old boy when he asked me to skip class and go for a ride in his dad’s pick-up truck. We drove for a while when he turned off the engine and faced me to ask me a life-altering question as he stuttered, “Tell me why Larry told me that when I talk to you that I shouldn’t mention God, because if I do, you will talk my ear off?” I married that boy and haven’t shut up since.

The moment, 27 years ago, when John and I said yes to planting a new church. It meant saying good-bye to the comfort and security that his profession as a dentist brought us. I will never forget the day that John hung up his dental drills for good and we, along with our three young daughters, ventured out into an uncertain but waiting future. (I haven’t had one moment of regret.)

The moment I said yes to leading the charge to bring Mercy Ministries to Canada. I had no idea what I was saying yes to, but I knew that God was asking me to do this. What an amazing adventure it has been.

The moment in 2006, at a breakfast with the Mayor of Kigali, Rwanda and her team, when I felt the Holy Spirit beckon me to put up my hand and say yes for my city and nation, as I sobbed in a bathroom stall in the hotel that day. I had personally witnessed what God had done in that nation after the devastation of the Rwandan Genocide of 1994. He brought beauty out of the ashes of unimaginable pain, sorrow and suffering, and I wondered, “What can God do in Canada, a nation who needs to know and experience the love of a Saviour?”

On the other side of every yes, my life has been forever changed. I have watched a miracle of God’s grace and undeserved favour unfold.

It has never been because of me. My age, my wisdom or abilities do not qualify me for my God-given assignments. On the contrary, I have discovered the truth that His strength is truly made perfect in my weakness.

Lately I have been inspired by these words of Theodore Roosevelt, which were introduced to me by Brene Brown in her amazing book, Daring Greatly:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”

- I pray as you launch into 2013, that you sense the urgency of this moment awaiting you.

- I pray you have the courage to rise above the limitations and expectations imposed upon you by yourself or others.

- I pray you will write a beautiful story with your one life, and that you will be brave enough to live this year with a beautiful authenticity and daring vulnerability that will take your breath away!

Heaven’s smile is upon you and God’s promise is over you. He has crowned this year with His favour and goodness, so embrace it bravely and engage every moment as it waits for you. Let us lean into it: like a roller coaster ride, it’s so much more fun when we lean into it and let the momentum carry us off to great and daring adventures!

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Have you chosen your ONE WORD?

Mine is STEADFAST.

It expresses my need to take a stance, with urgency, and to keep on pushing through with strong determination.

Therefore, my beloved brethren, be firm (steadfast), immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord [always being superior, excelling, doing more than enough in the service of the Lord], knowing and being continually aware that your labor in the Lord is not futile [it is never wasted or to no purpose]. -1 Corinthians 15:58 (AMP)

stead·fast
1.  fixed in direction
2.  firm in purpose

3.  unwavering

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Helen Burns

Helen Burns

Helen Burns and her husband, John, speak around the world on the topic of relationships. They host the popular TV show “Relate with John and Helen.”
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I love Jesus, my husband and family and I am passionate about people having amazing relationships with God and each other.
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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=614996339 Celeste Wyatt Lee

    It has never been because of me…. oh yes, the two most impacting “yeses” I answered were: 1) God put right in my path to go to Kenya and minister to the Maasai (been going since 1998) and 2) when He had my local church ask me to be an elder. Neither one of these were on my radar or something I desired at all! Now due to circumstances I am not involved in leadership at all in my church and barely involved in the non-profit I helped found.

    As I was praying early this week for my word of the year — God so gave me “let go” (I know it is two – but it is what He said to me). It hurts to let go of things like this that are such a part of my life.

    So now, I have been trying to fill the void — drumming what I should be doing — and of course it is so quiet and nothing. Thank you for reminding me that He calls us to what we not imagine we could do — thus we could not even dream it — So I will let go of where He placed me – but has now removed me from – and let go of creating what I should be doing now. He will call as He has done in the past. I pray I will say yes – because it is always more than I can even envision much less do. Thank you so much.

    • Helen

      Thanks for sharing Celeste…your thoughts are beautiful and encouraging. May God richly bless and strengthen you in this year as you ‘let go’.

  • Diane

    “A beautiful authenticity and a daring vulnerability” – wow, that really WOULD be a breath-taking way to live this year. Thanks for the challenge and for such rich, rich thoughts. (My word this year is HARMONY. I have lived with so much dissonance, it’s time to be intentional and create a better soundtrack for my life.)

    • Helen

      What a stunning word to frame your year – Harmony. I trust you will find that truly will rise to be a glorious theme over your life in 2013.

  • Elizabeth

    Helen, you speak hope and certainty, purpose and focus into my day. This came sealed and delivered directly to my needs, the needs of my spirit and heart TODAY. I can’t tell you at 53 how wonderful it is to hear your 57 year old heart. Beating in similar ways to the pulse of my desires and hungers. Thank you Helen. Bless your boldness, bless your encouraging words to take action.

    • Helen

      Elizabeth… your words of encouragement have blessed me today as well. It is glorious to be awakened and truly alive to all that God holds for us in every season of our journey of life!

  • http://www.facebook.com/susan.read.5249 Susan Read

    When Helen Burns speaks I listen! I am in a holding pattern time of life…. wanting to move on and do things…. but my 54 year old husband has Alzheimers and for now life revolves arounds his needs…. maybe I just need to be BRAVE at home. It seems like everyone else is doing amazing work in places all over the world (like Rwanda) while the stuff I do day to day just to survive seems so insignificant. I think maybe I have become so focused on the limitations I forgot to be expectant…. to see God open up opportunities I hadn’t dreamed of.
    Thanks Helen.

  • Monica T Smith

    Helen; Thank you for this post. It has encouraged me, a 52 year old woman who has wondered for the past seven months what is my next step? I have spent the last 5 1/2 years resting and healing in a safe place after spending seven years watching many of my dreams die.

    2013 feels like a new season for my life and although I know what I want to do and believe what God has called me to, I am unsure of the how in getting there. Years ago, I would set goals and plow through them, but now I sense there is a different way to go and at a different pace.

    Thank you for reminding me that my age does not matter and that in my weakness I am equipped for His call on my life. I pray that I will take up His courage and boldness and rise above my self-imposed limitations and beliefs. I desperately want to live and tell the story He has called me to.

    May God continue to bless you and your family and may you always say, “Yes!”

    Monica

    • Helen

      Thanks for your lovely words of encouragement and honesty. May 2013 truly amaze you in every way. May you know God’s favour and grace in all you do.

  • http://starletssparklingheart.tumblr.com/ Laura Liira

    Oh Helen! You are always such an encouragement! Was just the word I needed.
    I’m very excited to WALK in courage into new territory this season, knowing I’m WALKing while holding God’s faithful and steady hand. (my word for 2013 is WALK)
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful heart!! xoxo