Truth from the Margins

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“The margins are speaking all over the place—in our neighborhoods, our cities, the world—calling us to respond.”
Nov_Kathy_800One definition of “margin” is “on the border or edge.” To me, the marginalized are those who, for all kinds of different reasons, are on the border or edge of whatever groups or systems they are part of. They are not in the center where the power and resources flow, but instead are in the white blank space that lingers on each side of the center.

I know a lot of people on the margins—men, women, children, who for all different reasons are subjugated to the edges. Poverty, pain, mental illness, physical illness, education, life experiences, gender, race, and sexuality are often reasons for people being pushed to the edge. Most systems have a natural tendency to look inward, not out to the edges. The status quo, the center, the norm is what will always get the attention, resources, and love. Left on its own, most typical systems—religious or not—will naturally ignore the margins and take care of the core.

The revolutionary message of Jesus was His call to look to the margins.

Over and over, Jesus told the religious leaders that they had it all wrong and that their methods of self-preservation were not the heart of God. He spent His time on the margins, healing the sick, restoring dignity to those who had lost it, touching lepers, honoring women, dining with sinners. His overt decisions to defer to the marginalized drove the religious establishment crazy. In the end, this subversion got Him killed. It’s an amazing example of how systems truly can’t stand any threats to their way of living. The center is powerful and doesn’t like to be challenged.

I know this in my small microcosm of the world. For many years, the number one battle I fought in church was to challenge systems to defer to the margins. To look out, instead of in. To break down walls that divide the center and the edge to make the borders bigger. To restore dignity to those who have lost it and have found themselves living in the shadows of the margins. To bring people together instead of separate.

It’s wild, really, how in the church of Jesus Christ there’s so much resistance to this. Honestly, caring for the margins shouldn’t be all that radical in the church. It should be the core of the work that we do as followers of Jesus, what we are known for, what people are drawn to; the norm not the exception. I always say Christians should be known as the wildest, craziest, risk-takers and lovers of people in town. But we all know that’s not always the case. We are often known as the scared ones, the protective ones, the judgmental ones. The ones who take care of our own—and that usually means people who are at the center, not the edge.

Seven years ago when we started The Refuge, we broke all the rules of church we could break. The margins were the center from the beginning. The poor, the women, the honest-about-struggles, the addicted, the lonely, the marginalized-for-all-kinds-of-reasons were the center of our community instead of the fringe. It’s why after all these years we are still small & awkward.

But, I can tell you this with certainty—it’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever been part of.

Nov_Kathy2So much beauty emerges from the margins, and I get to see it almost every day. Truth so pure that it is like gold. Beauty so glorious that it can’t be matched. Honesty so raw that it pierces souls. Healing so deep that it transforms the most hardened heart.

All from men, women, and children who have been pushed to the edge of so many other systems for so many reasons.

What we are doing here isn’t that special or great or amazing in terms of what is normally defined that way. In fact, so much of The Refuge is simple and unplugged and feels pretty weird. But I think what has sustained us over these years is that we have made a simple choice that has cost us everything but pays the most interesting, upside-down, and amazing return—to listen first to the margins because that’s where truth comes.

Prophetic truth that calls us to action.

The margins are speaking all over the place—in our neighborhoods, our cities, the world—calling us to respond.

The margins are where change in our hearts will come.

The margins are where change in the church will come.

The margins are where change in the world will come.

It makes me think of these words from Tim Keel, a call for our future:

“We need men and women who have previously been on the margins to come forth and lead us. In focusing so exclusively on our cognitive capacities, we have lost our imaginations. We need mystics. We need poets. We need prophets. We need apostles. We need artists. We need a church drawn out of the margins, drawn from the places and filled with people and shaped with competencies formerly thought to be of little account. In fact, perhaps it is from such ‘marginal’ communities as these that influence will begin to spread outward into communities that have been domesticated in a modern world and thus rendered docile. We need a wild vine grafted into the branch. We need alternate takes on reality. We need a different kind of leader–one who can create environments to nurture and release the imagination of God’s person.”

One of the reasons I love SheLoves so much is that it is a prophetic call to action that is coming from the margins, from the voices once unheard.

Poets, prophets, apostles, artists, dreamers, women and men and children releasing imagination and hope in all kinds of wild and wonderful ways.

The margins speak truth.

May we keep calling it out.

May we keep listening to it.

May we keep following its lead.

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Kathy Escobar
Kathy Escobar co-pastors The Refuge, an eclectic faith community in North Denver dedicated to those on the margins of life and faith. She blogs regularly about life and faith at www.kathyescobar.com and is the author of Down We Go--Living out the Wild Ways of Jesus in Action. She lives in Arvada, Colorado with her husband, Jose, and five kids.
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  • Amy Hunt

    Yes! And Amen!

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks, amy!

  • Bev Murrill

    Kathy, I love what y’all have written, and this line especially:

    Christians should be known as the wildest, craziest, risk-takers and lovers of people in town.
    But we all know that’s not always the case. We are often known as the
    scared ones, the protective ones, the judgmental ones. The ones who take
    care of our own—and that usually means people who are at the center,
    not the edge.

    What a fantastic statement – I wish I’d written it. I hate hate hate that Christians are so scared and so sensible and so quick to accuse, especially when Jesus Christ used His own death to deal with our fears and our protectiveness and our blaming… thanks for writing. What an awesome statement.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      bev, it’s so fun that you are reading from afar. great to be connected this way.

  • Monica

    Love this! I’m going to savor and seek this: “So much beauty emerges from the margins…truth so pure that it is like gold. Beauty so glorious it can’t be matched. Honesty so raw that it pierces souls. Healing so deep that it transforms the most hardened heart.” I pray that this becomes the norm.

    Be blessed,
    Monica

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks, monica. me, too!

  • Adam Julians

    Thank you so much for saying all of that Kathy. This, like reading your book last year “Down we Go” has been music to my soul.

    For reasons I cannot share publically, what you wrote with “Prophetic truth that calls us to action”. Is meaningful for me.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      i am so glad that you liked down we go and much of what’s in this post sure is embedded in there.

      • Adam Julians

        Yes, wonderful – looking forward to your new book, hope you are firnding it fulfilling to write :)

  • HBurns

    Thank you Kathy…. this post has left me weepy and so very grateful for what we all get to be a part of. God truly does beckon us to the margins and such beauty and hope arises there. My life is so much richer and my heart is so much fuller.

    Thanks for all you do to serve this world and especially thank you for your voice on SheLoves – it is so valued and appreciated.

    Much love and gratitude,

    Helen xo

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks helen. i am so grateful to be part of sheloves with you & all the other prophets & artists & pastors & teachers & mommies & advocates bravely participating in tilting things a new direction in this world.

  • Bethany Olsen

    I love this so much. Thanks for sharing, Kathy.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks bethany, and putting up with me each month :)

  • http://www.kelleynikondeha.com/ Kelley Nikondeha

    Kathy.. YES!!! And I agree with Tim – we have much to learn from those on the margins, they have a wisdom we need to hear and obey.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      yeah, so much beauty emerging

  • r.steele

    Wonderfully written!

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks for reading.

  • http://www.bronlea.wordpress.com/ Bronwyn

    Love this: ” I always say Christians should be known as the wildest, craziest, risk-takers and lovers of people in town.” Yeeee haw!

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks bronwyn. wouldn’t that be fun if it were true everywhere?

  • http://www.idelette.com idelette

    I love how you challenge me, lead me and lead us, Kathy. Thank you for sharing from your heart and for doing this work of nurturing Life in the margins. All of this. Amazing.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      thanks dear idelette. you are a prophetic, beautiful voice calling us to love, justice, and mercy, and i am just glad to be a little part of it over here!

    • oddznns

      Idelette, I love this site;)

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  • http://dlmayfield.wordpress.com/ D.L. Mayfield

    love it. on saturday morning N.T. Wright was talking about the ways we actively find Jesus. they are: prayer, reading the Bible, observing the sacraments, and hanging out with the poor. that, plus your entire talk on Jesus the dignity restorer, thrilled my little soul. because you know it, i can see that. this is where we are getting to know Jesus, in the places he always said he would be.

    • http://www.kathyescobar.com/ kathyescobar

      it was so awesome to meet you and kelley, too. total highlight and good for my soul. downward mobility does not suck.

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  • oddznns

    Right on Kathy. HE lived at the margins. We are too comfortable. Thanks for the wakeup.

  • Kelly Greer

    Kathy – Refuge!! That is my heart’s desire – to be a refuge to others just as our Jesus is to us. I want to be there in the margins, boots tied and ready with bended knee. Love your heart for those who are marginalized. They are our sons and daughters, our neighbors, our friends.
    Hugs,
    Kelly

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