Our Freedom Is All Tied Together


The function of our freedom is to free someone else. – Toni Morrison


Her bright smile lit up the small, simple store where she worked in Palestine. She offered us coffee (the kind that you drink like a tequila shot: no sugar, bottoms up). Her name in Arabic means “smiley” and it was true—her light was contagious. She was the manager of the store, a new venture centered on selling goods that the women’s center in the Palestinian refugee camp made to create greater sustainability. The economic reality for residents of a refugee camp is extremely bleak; however, this new endeavor was providing a bit of hope.

Articulate, strong, clear, she shared with us a bit of her story. In 1948, her parents were told by Israeli soldiers that they needed to leave their home in a coastal town near Tel Aviv for several days. Like so many other Palestinian families, they never were allowed to return. Living outside for weeks and months, they finally were moved to this refugee camp and a life they never expected. Our new friend was born and raised in the camp, along with her many sisters and brothers.

The road for her has been long and treacherous, the losses in her family great. Yet, one thing oozed out of every part of our time together—a desire for freedom.

She took us on a walking tour of the camp, her home. Hellos and smiles emerged from almost every crack and crevice as we walked along. We touched the cold walls of housing built on top of each other with narrow alleys and no light peeking in. We saw the bleak kids soccer field, a concrete slab with no balls to be found but kids sitting on steps hoping to play. We heard the sound of a UN truck rumbling as it dropped off supplies.

Thousands and thousands and thousands of people. Men, women, children. Displaced. And they are just one fraction of the many refugees throughout the region.

People who are not free.

They can’t move freely outside of the confines of the wall. They can’t just pick up and find a new place to live because they have no economic freedom. They can’t do all kinds of things that you and I can.

My recent trip to Israel, Palestine, and Jordan stirred up all kinds of big feelings inside, not just about their struggles but the realities of oppression and misused power in our country as well.

There’s no question that the situation in the Middle East is complicated, with no easy answers. Or that issues of generational poverty in the United States are complicated. That inequality and the damage of patriarchy around the world are difficult realities to untangle. That racism and classism and the divides between people are painful and tricky to even talk about let alone change. There are no easy answers for any of these huge justice issues.

But there are ways we can participate in change.

And it all starts with one important reality that in my opinion we must embrace—our freedom is all tied together.

Our freedom is all tied together.

When my sisters and brothers aren’t free, I am not either.

So many need us to fight for their freedom. Many can’t fight. They are trapped in refugee camps, in brothels, in abusive marriages, in housing projects, in poverty, in pain. We have liberties others don’t.

The question is what will we do with our liberties?

The status quo, the system, even some of our churches, will tell us things like, “It’s hopeless. They’ve been fighting for generations and there’s no solution” or “Only God can help them” or “Nothing we do will make a difference.” Or, worse yet, it will send a message that other things are more important—things like being comfortable or finding our happy place or just worrying about our own back yard.

I’m not saying that all of us need to become advocates for Palestine (or for human trafficking or poverty or for racial reconciliation or for ______). Or that if we aren’t championing a cause, we’re not valuable. Sometimes the best thing we can do is work on ourselves and our own freedom first.

But what I am saying is that our freedom is all tangled up together and we all play a part in change.

We are interconnected. We are interdependent. And our freedom is never just for us.

I believe in every fiber of my being that we are supposed to use our freedom to help free someone else. This is why our journey toward greater freedom and security and passion and strength and courage and hope and mercy and love is no small thing.

There are a lot of people who need freedom—in our families, in our neighborhoods, in our churches, in our cities, around the world.

We are all tied together.

Really, the only thing I can tangibly do for my friends in Palestine and my friends on the margins of life and faith here in the USA is share their story. It doesn’t feel like much, but it does make a difference. So many don’t know what life is like for so many oppressed people, both here and abroad.

When we help people learn, we are participating in freedom. That is something we can all do. We can tell our own stories, our own journeys toward freedom, in all their glory and all their gore.

And we can share the stories of women and men and children we know who need advocates and friends and people-who-care to share on their behalf so that others can join in on their fight for freedom.

Yeah, our freedom is all tied together.

May we keep finding our way toward greater freedom and use every bit we have to help free others, too.


Image credit: Rebecca Dongallo

Kathy Escobar
Kathy Escobar co-pastors The Refuge, a Christian community and mission center in North Denver. A trained spiritual director, speaker, and advocate, she also blogs regularly about life and faith at kathyescobar.com and is the author of Faith Shift and Down We Go—Living out the Wild Ways of Jesus. A mom of 5 young adults and teens, she is married to Jose and lives in Arvada, Colorado.
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  1. pastordt says:

    Amen, amen. Thank you, Kathy.

  2. You sing the song of my heart, Kathy. Our Freedom is all tied together, indeed.

  3. Wow. This is exactly what I’ve been grappling with lately. How do I help? I feel like I look at people who are doing such big things, and I so appreciate your words of interconnectedness. The small things I am doing are intertwined with the big things others are able to accomplish. Such encouragement when I feel disheartened!

    • thanks os much for sharing! oh, how my hope is that we can move toward “all things matter”, no matter the size or perceived value. we all play a part and without each other, none of it will work.

  4. So beautiful. Thank you, Kathy. I live in the Netherlands and today is actually 70 years ago that my grandparents were liberated from the Second World War. You’re right: it’s very important to share stories. Stories were and are the part of the reason why I’m passionate about justice.

  5. Lisa Burns says:

    I’m enlightened and inspired to action by your words, Kathy. This message is critical for our world — whether that’s in our own local communities or across the globe. One small action I try to take when sitting in traffic is to look at the person next to me or in front of me and realize that I am connected with and interdependent on them. It makes a huge difference in how I move through the world. Thank you for sharing.

  6. In my busy-ness, I get tunnel vision, and then I read something like this and the world is opened up for me; my prayers get broader; my heart has more room.

  7. Bev Murrill says:

    And all the stories join together in our hearts, and we realise we may not be able to do everything, but we can do something… and that’s another starfish!

    thanks that you always pull us up and onward, Kathy. Your writing is full of challenge and hope and strength… and we are made better thereby!

  8. Nicole A. Joshua says:

    Thank you for this reminder today, Kathy. It is a message that desperately needs to be embraced in my country, especially in light of grinding economic inequality and xenophobic violence that is lasting South Africa at this present moment.

    • thank you so much for sharing from across the miles. that’s one of the reasons i love sheloves. it’s global and we’re all tied together. peace.


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