Listening To vs Learning From

These days we hear a lot about the importance of listening to voices from the margins. For so long, the dominant voices have been held by mostly male, mostly white leaders—not only in the church and ministry, but also in high levels of countless systems. Slowly but surely things are shifting in small and healing […]

Backs Straight, Heads Lifted

Sometimes I get calls from women asking for help to get out of an abusive relationship. Skittish, scared, and filled with shame, they reach out and share their story. It’s so brave. Some are rich, some are poor. Some are educated, while others have never graduated from high school. Some have kids, while others don’t. […]

Slow Everything Down

I’m a fast person. I type fast. I walk fast. I talk fast. I get tasks done fast. I’m just not a tortoise; I’m definitely a hare. My husband, Jose, always teases me that I can do the same task as him in half the time. This is a good quality in some ways. I […]

What are you turning toward?

A lot of people I know are healing in a wide variety of ways. I am, too. Some of us are finding their way forward after a radical shift in faith, a broken relationship, a shattered dream. Others are discovering their voice for the first time, leaning into a passion that they hadn’t given themselves […]

Drinking Vodka Out of Frozen Turkeys

What the world needs now is love, sweet love. It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of. Jackie DeShannon belted out those words decades ago but they still ring so true. The more I engage in relationship with people (and myself!) I am struck by the deep need for love in this world.  […]