The Red Couch: Welcoming the Stranger Discussion


Red Couch -Welcoming the Stranger- Discussion

It was a small bolt of red cloth that captured the world’s attention. A tiny fragile body. Someone else’s child.

In that moment of seeing, the stranger on the other side of the world became our neighbor. It shattered the illusion of distance and difference. We found common ground in our grief.

The tragedy of the Syrian refugee crisis has pushed the issue of immigration center stage across the world. It’s sparked international debate about the tension between the need to care for our “own” and the extent of our responsibility toward others.

My homeland, Aotearoa, New Zealand is an isolated island nation. Large numbers of immigrants slipping across the border under the cover of shadow is not part of our daily experience. Nor has New Zealand experienced a mass arrival of asylum seekers by boat as our closest neighbours in Australia do regularly. Yet even here, debate about immigration has begun to reach fever pitch. The culture of fear around strangers is deeply embedded in the human psyche. We see this evidenced in phrases like “stranger danger” and  “Don’t talk to strangers” which are a part of our common language in the English-speaking world.

In Welcoming the Stranger, the lens is focused on the issue of undocumented migrants in the U.S. and how the church might shape its response in both public debate and private action toward migrants living among us. Whilst the specific issues that face each of us in our different contexts globally vary, the same core fears lurk under the surface of the waters. As Soerens and Hwang suggest:

The issue of immigration confronts our deepest fears of who we are and who we should be. As Christians, we can choose to respond in fear, or we can choose to embrace our identity in Christ and allow our citizenship in heaven (Eph 2:18-20, 22) to affect how we view and treat others.” (p.101)

A key question raised in framing our response to those who find themselves on the wrong side of the law with regard to their immigration status is: What is our role in relation to the law of the land which we call home? If we are called to both obedience and compassion, which should drive our response? Soerens and Hwang are careful to show that our desire to love our neighbors doesn’t neatly resolve the difficulties. But they are clear it should be the “guiding principle” of our response:

“The question for us if we are to seek God’s justice, then, is not only what the law is, and is it being followed? But is the law itself just? Ultimately the law must answer to God’s higher law, which requires us to treat all human life with sanctity … Valuing persons includes doing what we can to preserve them, to care for them, and to create fair systems that lead to healthy societies. We must ask if our human-made laws create a just and better existence for those created in God’s image. Ultimately ” … we must obey God rather than men.” (Acts 5:29).” (p. 109-110)

There are few things as compelling in convincing us of our value, as being given space to tell our stories. Especially in an environment where we know we will be heard. We need to know our stories, the stories of those who came before us, and those who live among us.

The West, enamored with the idea of progress has developed a tendency toward forgetfulness. In Te Ao Māori (the Māori World) all storytelling and speechmaking begins with the story of where we have come from: we row the waka (canoe). Not by looking forward to where we want to go, but with our eyes cast back on the way we have been. If we are to engage compassionately and constructively, then we must begin by understanding the path that we have come. This applies to both our personal and collective histories.

In the words of Soerens and Hwang: “When we begin to love our immigrant neighbors on a personal level, we will want to advocate for just, merciful and loving immigration policies a well. As we begin to converse and better understand the difficulties that these neighbors left in their home countries, we will also find our hearts stretching to other neighbors in need–the people still living in those places devastated by economic difficulties, war and environmental disaster–and we might, as the church, begin to do more to bring God’s love into those situations as well.”

Questions for Reflection:

  • Welcoming the Stranger is densely packed with stories and information about immigrants and immigration. What surprised or challenged you most as you read?
  • Consider your personal/local context: Who are the neighbors and strangers in your midst? How might you begin to engage with them and their stories more deeply?